Saturday, February 28, 2015

Half-ton Bedbound Woman

'Half-ton killer' loses 800lbs: Bedbound woman who falsely confessed to killing nephew by rollling on him turns life around to find new love (and ditches husband carer)

  • Mayra Rosales, 34, was 1,000lb when her nephew Eliseo, 2, died after her sister Jamie hit him in the head with a hairbrush 
  • Jamie begged Mayra to take the blame and she did because she had 'given up on life' anyway 
  • But autopsy disclaimed Mayra's story and Jamie confessed
  • Rosales vowed to get healthier so she could take care of sister's children
  • She lost weight with help of 11 surgeries, including a lap band procedure and extra skin removal surgery, and changed way she thought about food
A 1,000lb woman, once dubbed the 'half-ton killer' after she falsely confessed to accidentally killing her nephew, has lost 800lb.
Mayra Rosales, from Texas, said she had given up on life when she decided to protect her sister Jamie and take the blame for the death of her nephew Eliseo in 2008. 
Rosales, 34, told police she had smothered the child by rolling on top of him, a claim later disproved when autopsy results revealed the boy had died from multiple injuries to his skull.
After her sister Jamie confessed to the crime and was sentenced to 15 years in prison, Mayra vowed to get healthier to take care of her sister's surviving children. 
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Mayra Rosales lost 800lb with the help of 11 surgeries, including a lap band procedure and extra skin removal surgery, and changed way she thought about food
Mayra Rosales lost 800lb with the help of 11 surgeries, including a lap band procedure and extra skin removal surgery, and changed way she thought about food
Mayra said she has also changed the way she thinks about food. 'Before it was living to eat,' she said. 'And now you know, it's just something normal'
Mayra said she has also changed the way she thinks about food. 'Before it was living to eat,' she said. 'And now you know, it's just something normal'
Mayra pictured at her heaviest weight of 1000lbs in 2008 - a  time when she said that she 'had given up on life'
Mayra pictured at her heaviest weight of 1000lbs in 2008 - a  time when she said that she 'had given up on life'
Miss Rosales decided to turn her life around and since 2011 has been shedding hundreds of pounds. 
Miss Rosales lost weight with the help of 11 surgeries, including a lap band surgery and extra skin removal procedures.  
She has also changed the way she thought about food, she told ABC 13.  
'Food to me is I have to eat to live,' she said. 'Before it was living to eat, and now you know, it's just something normal.' 
Houston surgeon Dr. Younan Nowzaradan said he could see Rosales was driven to make a change.
'Once you're in bed for several years, she had no life,' he said. 'Once she get up and walk and do things, you'll be amazed how motivated people become.' 
After her trial, Rosales immediately began around the clock treatment with an obesity doctor and lost 100 pounds in her first 10 days
After her trial, Rosales immediately began around the clock treatment with an obesity doctor and lost 100 pounds in her first 10 days
Rosales was dubbed the 'Half Ton Killer' in 2008 after she falsely confessed to accidentally killing her nephew by rolling on him. Her story was disclaimed after the autopsy proved he died from multiple injuries to the skull
Rosales was dubbed the 'Half Ton Killer' in 2008 after she falsely confessed to accidentally killing her nephew by rolling on him. Her story was disclaimed after the autopsy proved he died from multiple injuries to the skull
After her trial, Rosales immediately began around the clock treatment with Dr. Nowzaradan.
She lost 100 pounds in her first 10 days. 
Rosales would have to lose 500 more just to get gastric bypass surgery. 
The newly slimmed down Rosales hasn't just seen a major change in her appearance. Her health has drastically improved as well. 
'I'm not diabetic, I do not have high cholesterol, I do not have high blood pressure,' she told ABC's Nightline. 
'Now I'm okay and my organs are perfect.' 
Rosales now has an active following on Facebook with over 18,000 fans, who she keeps updated as her transformation continues. 
Last month Rosales posted about another skin removal surgery, writing that 'my leg looks normal like any other' except for the scar she now has running from the back of her knee to her ankle. 
Rosales also invites fans who are struggling with their weight to inbox her if they'd like to receive health tips.
On her Facebook Rosales also revealed that she and her husband Bernie, was shown in her TLC documentary when she was still 1,000 pounds, had gotten a divorce in 2013 because he wanted to move back to Mexico to be with his family.
Rosales recently posted photographs smiling with a new boyfriend.
'Half-Ton Killer' Mayra Rosales begins her weight-loss journey
On her official Facebook page, which has over 18,000 followers, Rosales posted photographs with what appears to be a new boyfriend. She revealed on the page that she divorced her husband Bernie in 2013 
On her official Facebook page, which has over 18,000 followers, Rosales posted photographs with what appears to be a new boyfriend. She revealed on the page that she divorced her husband Bernie in 2013 
Rosales has seen a drastic improvement in her health as well. 'I'm not diabetic, I do not have high cholesterol, I do not have high blood pressure,' she said
Rosales has seen a drastic improvement in her health as well. 'I'm not diabetic, I do not have high cholesterol, I do not have high blood pressure,' she said
Rosales needed to lose 600 pounds just to be eligible for gastric bypass surgery
Rosales needed to lose 600 pounds just to be eligible for gastric bypass surgery
Although she now weighs around 200lb, Rosales said at the time of her two-year-old nephew's death she was dying.
'I was alive but not living life,' she said. 
Rosales had watched her sister hit Eliseo with a hairbrush on his arm, legs and head. The little boy died later that day from his injuries.
Jamie begged Rosales to take the fall. 
'I thought I was dying anyway so I decided to admit that I'd done it to protect my sister because I love her,' Rosales told the court during her trial. 
Rosales' trial became a media sensation. Cameras rolled as Rosales had to be cut out of her house and transported into a moving van to the court. 
Her attorney also bought a king-sized mattress so she could live in the courtroom while the jury decided her fate.   
Rosales later told ABC she was willing to give up her life for Jamie.
Instead Rosales ended up changing her life. 
She is now in the process of getting custody of Jamie's surviving children, who Rosales said are excited just to see her walking again.
Jamie (left) is now serving 15 years in jail for the death of Eliseo (right). During the trial, Rosales told the court she wanted to protect her sister because 'I love her'
Jamie (left) is now serving 15 years in jail for the death of Eliseo (right). During the trial, Rosales told the court she wanted to protect her sister because 'I love her'
Instead Rosales ended up changing her life, so she could take care of her sister's children
Instead Rosales ended up changing her life, so she could take care of her sister's children

Biggest Aircraft Graveyard

Explore every yard of where planes go to die in amazing resolution: Bing unveils interactive map of biggest aircraft graveyard in the world



Map shows a 2,600-acres of Arizona desert where several generations of military aircraft are stored
  • It lets you zoom in and look at the planes from both an angle and at using an aerial view of the site
  • Boneyard contains everything from A10 Thunderbolts, Hercules freighters and the F-14 Tomcat fighters
  • Some planes are merely stored at the site while others are recycles with their parts used in other aircraft 
Rows upon rows of once-majestic aircraft are lined up in the baking heat of Arizona's Tucson desert, left abandoned to the in piles of metal.
This is where planes go to die - a 2,600-acre patch of U.S. desert where several generations of military aircraft are stored in what has been dubbed 'The Boneyard'.
Now, Microsoft's Bing has created a stunning 'megapixel' view of this eerie sight using satellite imagery that allows anyone to explore the area in unprecedented, three dimensional detail.
Zoom in on the interactive map below to explore the plane graveyard and scroll down for video

WHAT HAPPENS TO ABANDONED PLANES AT 'THE BONEYARD'? 

Some planes are merely stored at the base between deployments, but for more than 80 per cent of the 4,200 aircraft that call it home, it is a cemetery of steel - 350,000 items to be called on when needed.
The desert is a perfect place to store the mass of steel, because low humidity and rainfall means very little rust occurs. 
The hard soil also means they can be parked up without the need for building concrete ramps. 
Engines, munitions, wiring and electronics are all recycled to help lower the cost of maintaining the current-day fleet. 
In 2005, staff at the facility recycled more than 19,000 parts worth $568million (£366million). 

The Boneyard contains everything from enormous cargo lifters to bombers, A10 Thunderbolts, Hercules freighters and the F-14 Tomcat fighters.
The planes go on and on, in rows with some appearing newly parked, while others are hidden in protective coverings to keep out the elements.
The base, home to the 309th Aerospace Maintenance and Regeneration Group (309 AMARG), carries out repairs to the craft and even gets some of them flying again.
The site has been a curiosity for eagle-eyed Google Earth users since the satellite imagery software was launched in 2005, but now for the first time it is available to view in high resolution.
The $35billion (£22billion) worth of outdated planes is kept as spare parts for current models at Davis-Monthan Air Force Base in Arizona.
Some planes are merely stored at the base between deployments, but for more than 80 per cent of the 4,200 aircraft that call it home, it is a cemetery of steel - 350,000 items to be called on when needed.
Engines, munitions, wiring and electronics are all recycled to help lower the cost of maintaining the current-day fleet. In 2005, staff at the facility recycled more than 19,000 parts worth $568million (£366million).
The U.S. government even allows the military in other countries to buy parts and even planes from the site. 
The facility is the size of 1,300 football pitches.
'As long as there are aircraft flying, military and commercial aircraft boneyards will always be necessary to keep other planes in the air,' aviation author Nick Veronico, who has visited Davis-Monthan told the BBC.
'Each of the storage yards typically performs a variety of functions from storing aircraft that are temporarily out of service but expected to return to the fleet, to reclaiming useable parts which are inspected, overhauled, and then held until needed by active aircraft, to dismantling of the aircraft carcasses.'

The Boneyard contains everything from cargo lifters to bombers, A10 Thunderbolts, Hercules freighters and the F-14 Tomcat fighters
The Boneyard contains everything from cargo lifters to bombers, A10 Thunderbolts, Hercules freighters and the F-14 Tomcat fighters
The planes go on and on, in rows with some appearing newly parked such as the left images of the B52 StratoFortress, while others are hidden in protective coverings to keep out the elements, or lay in scrap heaps
The planes go on and on, in rows with some appearing newly parked such as the left images of the B52 StratoFortress, while others are hidden in protective coverings to keep out the elements, or lay in scrap heaps
One of the reasons aircraft are kept here is because in the desert there is low humidity and rainfall which means very little rust occurs
One of the reasons aircraft are kept here is because in the desert there is low humidity and rainfall which means very little rust occurs
One of the reasons aircraft are kept here is because in the desert there is low humidity and rainfall which means very little rust occurs
One of the reasons aircraft are kept here is because in the desert there is low humidity and rainfall which means very little rust occurs

A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE WORLD'S BIGGEST AIRCRAFT GRAVEYARD

Immediately after World War II, the Army's San Antonio Air Technical Service Command established a storage facility for B-29 and C-47 aircraft at Davis-Monthan AFB. 
Today, this facility is the 309th Aerospace Maintenance and Regeneration Group (309 AMARG), which has grown to include more than 4,400 aircraft and 13 aerospace vehicles from the Air Force, Navy-Marine Corps, Army, Coast Guard. 
The planes are kept in various states of restoration, with some coming back to life long being abandoned at the Boneyard. Earlier this month, for instance, an enormous Cold War-era bomber which first flew in 1962 was resurrected from the Air Force's scrap heap to serve the nation once more.

The desert is a perfect place to store the mass of steel, because low humidity and rainfall means very little rust occurs.
The hard soil also means they can be parked up without the need for building concrete ramps.
The military has used Davis-Monthan as a plane storage facility for 60 years, and in recent years its unique landscape has been called on by Hollywood for such films as Transformers.
While it isn't the only aircraft boneyard in the world, it is the largest, containing around 4,400 aircraft.
Planes that have served on aircraft carriers have to be washed to get rid of salt. All aircraft have their fuel tanks lines drained and any explosive devices are removed.
Ducts are covered with tape and the aircraft are painted over in white to help deflect the sun's rays. 
The planes are kept in various states of restoration, with some coming back to life long being abandoned at the Boneyard.
Earlier this month, for instance, an enormous Cold War-era bomber which first flew in 1962 was resurrected from the Air Force's scrap heap to serve the nation once more.
The B-52, nicknamed Ghost Rider, was mothballed seven years ago at the Davis-Monthan Air Force Base.
It took to the skies once more on February 13 after months of painstaking restoration, which saw damaged parts such as the fuel lines and hydraulic steering systems replaced to make her airworthy once more.
When fully functional, Ghost Rider will be capable of unleashing 70,000lbs of weapons, conventional or nuclear, almost anywhere on the planet.
The plane, which will be one of 76 kept flying the the Air Force, has a range of 8,000 miles on one fuel tank, and can travel 650mph at altitudes as high as 50,000ft.
In a published report on the restoration, Colonel Keith Schultz, who piloted Ghost Rider, said: 'I've been flying the B-52s since the 80s and it surprised me that after almost seven years...she cranked up just fine and we had no issues with the flight control systems.
'It took a little under three hours for the flight and we were fortunate to have had good weather the entire trip as the inertial and navigational equipment had not been installed.'

Amazing aerial shots of 'The Boneyard': where planes go to die

While it isn't the only aircraft boneyard in the world, it is the largest, containing around 4,400 aircraft. Planes that have served on aircraft carriers have to be washed to get rid of salt. All aircraft have their fuel tanks lines drained and any explosive devices are removed
While it isn't the only aircraft boneyard in the world, it is the largest, containing around 4,400 aircraft. Planes that have served on aircraft carriers have to be washed to get rid of salt. All aircraft have their fuel tanks lines drained and any explosive devices are removed


Rows upon rows of once-majestic aircraft are lined up in the baking heat of Arizona's Tucson desert, left abandoned to the elements in piles of rusting metal. Pictured here are B-52s
Rows upon rows of once-majestic aircraft are lined up in the baking heat of Arizona's Tucson desert, left abandoned to the elements in piles of rusting metal. Pictured here are B-52s
Davis–Monthan Air Force Base is a United States Air Force base located within the city limits approximately five miles south-southeast of downtown Tucson, Arizona
Davis–Monthan Air Force Base is a United States Air Force base located within the city limits approximately five miles south-southeast of downtown Tucson, Arizona

Alina Kabayeva -the Russian President's lover

Is SHE why Vladimir Putin had a facelift? The Olympic gymnast half the president's age said to have borne him two children and become Russia's secret First Lady

  • Alina Kabayeva is widely believed to be the Russian President's lover
  • According to several sources, she's mother to at least one of his children
  • Russians consider the 31-year-old the country’s undeclared First Lady
  • Although she is rarely seen in public — and never on Putin’s arm 
  • According to one Western intelligence report, Putin had a facelift in 2010 to iron out the creases in his forehead and the bags beneath his eyes
Alluring: Many Russians consider Alina Kabayeva the country's undeclared First Lady
Alluring: Many Russians consider Alina Kabayeva the country's undeclared First Lady
When a fleet of armoured cars pulled up outside a small cafe in the centre of Moscow last December, a crowd of onlookers gathered, waiting for a glimpse of whoever was inside.
Who on earth, they wondered, could be important enough to require a phalanx of machinegun-toting uniformed guards, all clad in bulletproof vests, just to buy a late-night cup of coffee at Coffeemania in Kudrinskaya Square?
When the car doors opened, they had their answer. Out stepped a strikingly beautiful young woman whose face was instantly recognisable to those who saw her.
Alina Kabayeva, a former Olympic gold medal-winning rhythmic gymnast, is widely believed to be the lover of Russian President Vladimir Putin and, according to several sources, the mother of at least one of his children.
Although she is rarely seen in public — and never on Putin’s arm — the 31-year-old is seen by many Russians as their country’s undeclared First Lady.
But, like so many things in Putin’s private life, Alina Kabayeva has been kept hidden in the shadows.
Indeed, while the 62-year-old Russian leader continues to rattle his sabre at Nato after annexing parts of Ukraine, on the home front he has silenced stories about his private life, maintaining a carefully choreographed public image as the strongman hero of his country.
Russian journalists claim it is easier to report on matters of national security than the inner workings of Putin’s private life. As we shall see, there are repercussions for those who dare.
Nevertheless, fragments of information continue to seep out.
Last week, for example, a TV documentary which aired in Germany made a series of eye-catching allegations against the bellicose leader. According to the programme, Putin The Man, documents from the archives of Germany’s spy agency BND claim that during the early years of his marriage to his former wife Lyudmila, Putin was a ‘wife-beater and a philanderer’. The information was obtained by a female agent posing as the then Mrs Putin’s interpreter.
The programme also alleged that the Russian leader is terrified of getting old.
‘Putin is afraid of physical decay, he is afraid of ageing,’ biographer Ben Judah told the programme-makers.
In a rare picture of them together, Alina Kabayeva recieves an admiring look from Vladimir Putin in 2008
In a rare picture of them together, Alina Kabayeva recieves an admiring look from Vladimir Putin in 2008
In an effort to stay young, Putin — who has in the past been photographed with tigers and polar bears as well as horse riding bare-chested in Siberia — is said to take hot and cold baths followed by gym sessions to hone his athletic figure.
According to one Western intelligence report, cited by the programme from German television company ZDF, he even had a facelift in 2010 to iron out the creases in his forehead and the bags beneath his eyes, in readiness for his return as president in 2012 after a brief stint as prime minister.
His face, rarely expressive at any time, is now a frozen mask of smoothness, prompting further speculation that he has become a fan of Botox, the anti-wrinkle jab.
Keeping up with a lover half his age might, of course, be behind such drastic behaviour, not to mention his sudden divorce from Lyudmila after three decades of marriage and two daughters together.
Their separation was announced at the Kremlin in June 2013, minutes after Putin and his wife had watched a Russian state ballet performance of La Esmeralda.
‘A joint decision’ was how Putin described it, blaming his workload and looking tentatively and rather awkwardly at his 55-year-old wife for approval.
Lyudmila Putin nodded in agreement, fixing a smile on her face, adding that the couple ‘practically never see each other’ and summing up their separation with her own phrase — ‘a civilised divorce’.
Putin hands flowers to Olympic gold medal-winning gymnast Alina Kabayeva after awarding her with an Order of Friendship at an award ceremony in the Kremlin in 2001
Putin hands flowers to Olympic gold medal-winning gymnast Alina Kabayeva after awarding her with an Order of Friendship at an award ceremony in the Kremlin in 2001

But however blasé the Russian leader and his wife tried to be about the end of their union, evidence has gathered that beneath their seemingly amicable separation is a far more colourful story.
For the past year, speculation has been rife that the couple’s sudden divorce declaration was merely a prelude to some other big revelation yet to come about the President and his relationship with Kabayeva. Yet still this enigmatic woman appears to be living under a veil of secrecy.
Born in Tashkent, Uzbekistan, in 1983, the same year that Putin and former Aeroflot stewardess Lyudmila married, Kabayeva has been the talk of Moscow’s political and journalistic salons for the past seven years for her alleged affair with the president.
When asked her lover's name, she just giggled 
Photographs of the glamorous, highly decorated sportswoman and Putin at official functions show the usually stony-faced president gawping at her like a besotted schoolboy.
Kabayeva has also enjoyed a meteoric rise in fortune under the president’s watchful eye. After retiring from gymnastics in 2005, she became an MP in his United Russia Party.
Last September she stood down and — despite her youth and relative lack of experience — was made chairman of a major pro-Kremlin media group.
There have been rumours that Kabayeva has had at least one child with Putin, although she denied being a mother in January 2011 in a cover-story interview with Russian Vogue, claiming that the little boy living with her was her nephew.
Recently there have been more suggestions of Kabayeva’s place in the president’s heart.
At last year’s Winter Olympics in the Black Sea resort of Sochi, she carried the Olympic flame aloft while an approving Putin looked on, even though at the peak of her career she was banned for a drugs transgression.
Putin, pictured horse riding bare-chested in Siberia, is said to take hot and cold baths followed by gym sessions to hone his athletic figure 

Putin, pictured horse riding bare-chested in Siberia, is said to take hot and cold baths followed by gym sessions to hone his athletic figure 
Several months before that, Russian state television broadcast a flattering documentary to mark the vivacious Kabayeva’s 30th birthday. While no questioner dared to mention Putin by name, she spoke coquettishly of a man whom ‘I love very much’.
Pressed for his identity, she giggled and twiddled her hair before answering: ‘You’ve managed to ask that question. Well done.’
And in December last year, at around the time Kabayeva was spotted purchasing her late-night coffee under armed guard, Putin tantalisingly revealed in an interview that he was in a relationship in which he ‘loves’ and ‘is loved’.
But still there has been no admission that the object of his affections is Kabayeva.
It was in spring 2008 that a small Russian newspaper, the Moskovsky Korrespondent, published the first story linking the pair, incorrectly suggesting that the politician had already divorced Lyudmila and that his second wedding was imminent.
As a result, the owner of the paper, oligarch Alexander Lebedev, who later bought the London Evening Standard and the Independent, was forced to close the title down.
But reports of Putin’s alleged romance continued to emerge. In July 2008 another newspaper claimed that Kabayeva had pulled out of a TV ice show extravaganza ‘because of her pregnancy’. The report subsequently vanished from internet databases.
Other potential pieces of evidence for her pregnancy are flight records from 2009 which show that Kabayeva flew with two of Putin’s most trusted friends from Prague to Sochi. One was Dmitry Gorelov, a former Red Army doctor, who was granted the title of ‘honoured healthcare practitioner of the Russian Federation’ by Putin in a 2000 presidential decree.
Kabayeva gave birth to a son by Putin, named Dmitry, in 2009, according to reports in the New York Post. A daughter is said to have been born in 2012.
Then came the Putins’ divorce announcement — which raised further questions about why, having refused to discuss his private life for so long, the President was suddenly, if briefly, being so open.
Some commentators believe that it was simply becoming too difficult to stop the infidelity rumours affecting his image.
One popular Russian political blogger, Leonid Volkov, believes that Putin wanted to erase the image of an unfaithful husband. ‘I’ve heard many taxi drivers say it many times: “If he’s cheating on his wife, it means he’s deceiving the country”,’ he says.
Putin's ex-wife Lyudmila (pictured together in 2011) once described him as an unemotional ‘vampire’ who had ‘sucked all the juices’ out of her
Putin's ex-wife Lyudmila (pictured together in 2011) once described him as an unemotional ‘vampire’ who had ‘sucked all the juices’ out of her

Others say that it was Mrs Putin who ultimately forced her husband’s hand, remaining at his side only long enough to allow him to win a second term as president without rocking the boat.
According to journalist Kseniya Sobchak, who claims to be a confidante of Mrs Putin, the split was ‘definitely orchestrated’ by Lyudmila. ‘I’m sure that she pushed him and I’m sure she had wanted for a while to end the strange, dubious position they were in.’
Without a doubt, Lyudmila had always been a reluctant First Lady, once revealing in a rare interview that she cried when Putin became president, saying: ‘My private life had ended with all this.’
In March 1980, when they met in what was then Leningrad (now Saint Petersburg), farmer’s daughter Lyudmila Shkrebneva was an air hostess — pretty, slim and blonde — and Vladimir Putin was a KGB operative. Although he told Lyudmila he was, like his father, working for the police, she found out the truth from a friend 18 months later.
What she saw in Putin, a man she has readily admitted is emotionally cold, is sometimes hard to see. When they began dating, he often left her waiting in dingy subway stations, on the brink of tears, for as long as 90 minutes. ‘I would nearly cry out of humiliation,’ she said in a rare interview with the author of the book Vladimir Putin: Road To Power.
He's a vampire who sucked all the life out of me 
‘It wasn’t instantaneous passion or love at first sight,’ she recalled of their three-year courtship. ‘For the first time in my life, I fell in love gradually.’
They married in 1983 in a state ceremony, then a traditional Russian Orthodox ceremony, but life as Mrs Putin proved challenging.
The early years of their marriage were spent in East Germany, where Putin was posted as a KGB agent from 1985 to 1990, posing as director of the Soviet-German cultural centre in Dresden.
It seems Putin’s view of a wife’s role was far from enlightened.
Lyudmila told her husband’s biographer that, while seven months pregnant with the couple’s first daughter, she was left to carry heavy shopping up several flights of stairs to their apartment.
While photographs from those years reveal a semblance of normal family life, that was to last only a few years as Putin’s political ambitions took over in the early 1990s.
Lyudmila, meanwhile, threw herself into raising her daughters and taught German at Leningrad State University.
Last week, a TV documentary which aired in Germany, alleged the Russian leader is terrified of getting old
Last week, a TV documentary which aired in Germany, alleged the Russian leader is terrified of getting old
But while Putin shows no signs of wanting to relinquish a grip on power not seen since Soviet times, Lyudmila proved to be a reluctant consort, despite the untold wealth that her husband’s position has brought.
Putin officially earns about £90,000 a year but is said to be one of the richest men in the world, with an oil-backed fortune worth several billion. He enjoys astonishing presidential perks, with access to 20 residences including a lavishly restored Tsarist palace in the Gulf of Finland and a ski lodge in the Caucasus mountains, as well as a fleet of 43 aircraft, 700 cars and four luxury yachts.
Yet Lyudmila once described her husband as an unemotional ‘vampire’ who had ‘sucked all the juices’ out of her.
Of the couple’s daughters, Masha, 29, and Katya, 28, almost nothing is known. They went to university in Saint Petersburg under false names.
After the shooting down in July of Malaysian Airlines Flight MH17, widely attributed to Moscow-backed Ukrainian rebels, a Dutch tabloid claimed that Masha was living in the Netherlands with her Dutch partner. Dozens of reporters flocked to the luxury block where she was said to be, to find that she had disappeared (if she was ever there).
Since the Putins’ divorce, almost nothing has been seen or heard of Lyudmila.
Putin is afraid of physical decay, he is afraid of ageing
But if the President hoped to end speculation about his private life by announcing his divorce, he must be disappointed that the rumour mill is turning faster than ever.
In Russian media circles there is permanent speculation about when — and if — Putin will introduce Kabayeva to the world as his wife.
For a time it was believed that this would happen at the Winter Olympics last year and that Kabayeva, who was wearing a wedding ring, would appear not only as one of Russia’s most famous athletes but as the love of their leader’s life.
But the long-awaited announcement never came.
Instead, Putin’s entourage continue to promote his ‘monk-like’ image as a bachelor devoted to his country.
‘There is no place for family affairs in his life,’ says his spokesman Dmitry Peskov. ‘It’s only about the duties and responsibility that he has as head of the state.’
Others suspect that, as relations with the West become more strained, Putin does not want his ‘hard man’ reputation to be softened by talk of love.
Whatever the truth, it seems he will continue to keep a tight lid on affairs of the heart, hiding his emotions behind that ultra-smooth face.
 

Friday, February 27, 2015

બજેટ શા માટે સાંજે પાંચ વાગે વંચાય છે? -ચંદ્રકાંત બક્ષી

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અમેરિકામાં કોઈક ચક્રમ એક્સપર્ટ જાહેર કરે છે કે દૂધ શિશુઓ માટા હાનિકર્તા છે અને આપણાવાળા તે વાત વિશે લેખો લખવા બેસી જાય છે અને બાળક મધવાળી આંગળી ચાટી જાય એમ અમેરિકન ચક્રમની વાત ચાટી જાય છે. આ પૃથ્વી પર કરોડો વર્ષોથી કરોડો મનુષ્યો અને સ્તન્ય પશુઓના નવજાત શિશુઓ અને બાળકો દૂધ પીને જ પોષણ પામ્યાં છે. પણ જો દૂધથી બાળકને હાનિ થતી હોય તો કરોડો વર્ષોથી કરોડો મનુષ્ય અને પશુ શિશુઓને હાનિ જ હાનિ થઈ રહી છે! એકને કહી, દૂજેને સુની, ગુરુ નાનક કહે દોંનો ગ્યાની...

ગુલામી લોહી, હાડકાં, સ્નાયુઓમાં કૅન્સર કે એઈડ્ઝની જેમ વ્યાપ્ત એક રોગનું નામ છે. અથવા કદાચ દરેક મનુષ્યના શરીરમાં ગુલામીના અને આઝાદીના સેલ્સ હશે, આઝાદીના સેલ્સ બીમાર થઈને મરી જતા હશે અને પછી મનુષ્ય ગુલામ થઈ જતો હશે. એક હિંદુસ્તાની કે ભારતીય દૃષ્ટિકોણ વિકસી શક્યો નથી, જેમ એક ચીની કે આફ્રિકન દૃષ્ટિકોણ છે એ રીતે. દક્ષિણ કોરિયાએ ઓલિમ્પિક્સમાં પણ વિશ્ર્વભરની ટીમોને પરેડનો ક્રમાંક અંગ્રેજી એ,બી,સી,ડી પ્રમાણે નહીં પણ એમની કોરીઅન ભાષાની બારાખડી પ્રમાણે આપ્યો હતો. જાપાની કે ચીની નેતા અંગ્રેજીમાં બોલતા નથી, અને ઘણીવાર અંગ્રેજી જાણતા હોય છે. ચીનના તાંગશાંગમાં ભયાનક ધરતીકંપ થયો અને ૫ થી ૭ લાખ માણસો મરી ગયા, પૂરું ઔદ્યોગિક નગર ખતમ થઈ ગયું, આખી દુનિયા ધન લઈને સહાયાર્થ દોડી આવી, ચીને વિષાદી ગૌરવથી કહ્યું: થેંક્સ!

પણ અમે અમારી પ્રજાની મહેનત અને પસીનાથી ફરી ઊભા થઈશું! અને ભારતવર્ષ, સારે જહાં સે અચ્છા હિંદોસ્તા હમારા, ને ડેન્માર્કની સ્કૂલના છોકરાં ૨૦૦૦ ડૉલર મોકલે તો પણ આપણા લટકમટક મંત્રીશ્રીઓ ટી.વી. કેમેરાની લાલ લાઈટ સામે જોતા મરકમરક થઈને સ્વીકારી લેતા હોય છે. ક્યાંય ફર્ક છે માણસની ક્વોલિટીનો. અત્યારે તો વી. પી. સિંહ ખુશખુશ થઈ જાય એટલી ઝડપથી વિશ્ર્વનાં રાજ્યમંડળોમાં આપણે પછાત, પછાતતર, પછાતતમ બની રહ્યા છીએ. કદાચ લોટો લઈને ભિક્ષાં દેહિ... અને ગ્રહણદાન, ગ્રહણદાન... બોલતા બોલતા પૃથ્વી પર ભટકવાની આપણને મજા પડી ગઈ છે.

ગુલામી મનોદશા કોને કહે છે? સન ૧૭૩૯માં ઈરાનનો નાદિર કુલી ઉર્ફ નાદિરશાહ દિલ્હી લૂંટે છે, કતલ ચલાવે છે, એ દિલ્હીમાં માત્ર ૫૭ દિવસો રહે છે. પછી એ ઈરાન જાય છે. ત્યાં એનું ખૂન થાય છે, તખ્ત પર બેસનાર બીજી વ્યક્તિનું ખૂન થાય છે, પછી નવો વંશ આવે છે અને એ પણ સમાપ્ત થાય છે. પણ નાદિરની દિલ્હી લૂંટ પછી ૫૦ વર્ષે, ૯૦૦ માઈલ દૂરની મુર્શિદાબાદની ટંકશાળામાં, હજી નાદિરશાહી સિક્કાઓ છપાતા હતા, ચલણ તરીકે સ્વીકારાતા હતા... અને નાદિર તો બંગાળથી ૯૦૦ માઈલ દૂર ૫૦ વર્ષોે પહેલાં આવીને માત્ર ૫૭ દિવસ જ રહી ગયો હતો! ગુલામી મનોેદશાનું આનાથી વધારે વેધક પ્રમાણ મળવું મુશ્કેલ છે.

ચીને એના નેતાઓનાં નામો, શહેરોનાં નામો, નદીઓનાં નામો, પૂરી લિપિ બદલી નાખ્યા છે, અને આપણે હજી અલાહાબાદને પ્રયાગરાજ કે અમદાવાદને કર્ણાવતી કરતાં ફફડીએ છીએ. જ્યાં સુધી જાતિગર્વ નથી આવતો, જ્યાં સુધી જાતિ માટે ફના થવાની કુરબાની ભાવના નથી આવતી ત્યાં સુધી શક્તિમાન દુનિયા જ નહીં, પણ ફાલતુ મેધા પાટકરો પણ લાતો મારતી રહે છે. ગુજરાતની અસ્મિતા આપણે કનૈયાલાલ મુનશીની મુઠ્ઠીમાંથી લઈને મુંબઈના હોલસેલ વેપારીઓની બંડીના અંદરના ખિસ્સાઓમાં સરકાવી દીધી છે.

ફેબ્રુઆરીમાં આપણે ત્યાં બજેટ આવશે, કારણ કે આપણું સરકારી વર્ષ ૧ એપ્રિલથી ૩૧ માર્ચ સુધીનું છે. શા માટે એ પ્રમાણે છે? કારણ કે ઈંગ્લૅન્ડમાં એ પ્રમાણે છે! કારણ કે ૧૮૫૪માં ઈંગ્લૅન્ડમાં કાયદો પસાર કરવામાં આવ્યો કે વાર્ષિક હિસાબ ૩૧ માર્ચ સુધીનો ગણવો. ૧૮૬૪માં બ્રિટિશ ઈન્ડિયન સરકારે એક કમિશન નીમ્યું જેણે સૂચવ્યું કે હિંદુસ્તાનમાં બ્રિટિશ પદ્ધતિ અપનાવવી જોઈએ. અને ૧૮૬૬થી આપણે ત્યાં આ ૧ એપ્રિલ - ૩૧ માર્ચવાળું વર્ષ છે.

અચ્છા, આપણે ત્યાં ૨૮ ફેબ્રુઆરીએ સાંજે ૫-૫:૩૦ વાગ્યે જ શા માટે બજેટ વંચાવું શરૂ થાય છે? સવારે ૧૧ વાગ્યે સંસદમાં શરૂ ન કરી શકાય, જ્યારે આખો દેશ ઑફિસોમાં બેસી ગયો હોય? ના, એટલા માટે કે ‘બેક-હોમ’ ઈંગ્લૅન્ડમાં એ વખતે ૧૧:૩૦ વાગ્યા હોય (ઈન્ડિયા અને ઈંગ્લૅન્ડ વચ્ચે સાડા પાંચ કલાકનો સમયફેર છે), અને ઈંગ્લૅન્ડ એ આપણો ઓરમાન બાપ છે માટે બ્રિટિશ ઈન્ડિયન સરકારે સાંજે બજેટસત્ર શરૂ કરવાની પ્રણાલિકા પાડી હતી. અંગ્રેજો તો ગયા, પણ એમના પાળેલાના પાળેલા આપણે ત્યાં આબાદ છે એટલે બજેટ હજી એ રીતે જ આવે છે. આપણા દેશનો ૯૦ ટકા વરસાદ ચોમાસામાં પડે છે, દિવાળી અને ક્રિસ્ટમસ સિવાયના લગભગ આપણા બધા જ ધાર્મિક-અધાર્મિક ઉત્સવો (પર્યુષણ, બળેવ, જન્માષ્ટમી, નવરાત્રિ, ગણેશોત્સવ, પૂજા, પોંગલ, ઓણમ, ગૌરવ, દિવાસો, વિજયા દશમી, પટેટી, ઈદ, ગુરુ નાનક જન્મદિવસ વગેરે) વરસાદના દિવસોમાં આવે છે. ઈંગ્લૅન્ડ માટે ફેબ્રુઆરી બરાબર છે, આપણા દેશનું હવામાન વરસાદ, નાણાંનું ચલણ, બજારમાં આવતી ફસલો, લોકોના ઉત્સવો, પ્રજા કમાય છે અને ખર્ચ કરે છે એ સીઝન, બધું જ જુદું છે. ફેબ્રુઆરીના આપણા સરકારી બજેટનો ફાયદો કે નુકસાન એક જ છે કે ડિસેમ્બર - જાન્યુઆરી - ફેબ્રુઆરીમાં આપણા સરકારી વિભાગો ખોદાખોદ કરીને ધડાધડ ગ્રાન્ટ વાપરવા માંડે છે કે જેથી આવતે વર્ષે પણ આ ખર્ચના આધાર પર ગ્રાન્ટ મળતી રહે...! આ ખોદાખોદ વિકાસલક્ષી નથી, ખર્ચલક્ષી છે.

હજી આપણા સંવિધાનમાં ભાષા છે કે અમુક વ્યક્તિ અમુક સત્તા ભોગવતો રહેશે જ્યાં સુધી પ્રેઝિડેન્ટનું ‘પ્લેઝર’ હશે ત્યાં સુધી. હજી ફૌજી ડિસ્પેચોમાં લખેલું આવે છે કે ‘ઑફિસર્સ એન્ડ મેન’ હતા. આ બધી બ્રિટિશ હાકેમશાહીની સામંતી ભાષા છે જે આપણા ગુલામો છોડી શકતા નથી. લશ્કરમાં ઑફિસર્સ અંગ્રેજો માટે અને મેન એ દેશીઓ માટે વપરાતું હતું. પણ આપણે એ હજી છોડ્યું નથી, હવે એનો ભેદ રહ્યો નથી છતાં પણ. દિલ્હીમાં રમતોત્સવ થાય અને એમાં ‘ભારતીયમ્’ મોટા અક્ષરે રોમન લિપિમાં, એટલે કે અંગ્રેજીમાં લખ્યું હોય, કારણ કે દેવનાગરી લિપિ કાળાઓની છે. અમદાવાદની અંબિકા નામની છોકરી પ્રધાનમંત્રી રાજીવરત્ન ગાંધી સમક્ષ હિંદી માટે પ્રેમ પ્રગટ કરે માટે એનું ઈનામ ખૂંચવી લેવાય.

આપણી ગુલામી એ પ્રકારની છે કે ટી.વી.ની દિલ્હીસ્થિત ઉદ્ઘોષિકા અમેરિકન ઉચ્ચારો ઈલીનોય અને આર્કાન્સો બરાબર કરે છે પણ એને વલ્લભભાઈ પટેલ કે મૌલાના અબુલ કલામ આઝાદ બોલતા આવડતું નથી (બલબાઈ અને અબ્દુલ ઉચ્ચારો થયેલા સાંભળ્યા છે). શેક્સપિયરના જમાનાનું અંગ્રેજી વાંચનારા અને ૧૯મી સદીનું અંગ્રેજી બોલનારા હવે ફક્ત હિંદુસ્તાનમાં જ રહી ગયા છે. સંસ્કૃત ભણવા માટે ભારતીય વિદ્યાર્થીઓ જર્મની જતા હતા એવું સાંભળ્યું હતું પણ હવે હિંદીમાં ડૉક્ટરેટ લેવા એક રાષ્ટ્રભાષી પેરિસ જઈ રહ્યો છે એ સાંભળ્યું ત્યારે દિલ પ્રસન્ન થઈ ગયું...

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Indecent proposal by Warne

I caught my husband cheating - so I trashed his £100,000 Porsche... not to mention put laxatives in his drink, cut up his clothes - and fought him tooth and nail for control of my bra company, by MICHELLE MONE

  • Michelle says marriage problems started soon after 1999 launch of Ultimo
  • But stuck with husband saying people from her background didn't divorce 
  • Beginning of end came after she hired Samantha Bunn as head of design
  • Husband Michael was pictured kissing Ms Bunn not long after break-up  

LET'S GO NEXT DOOR TO THE BEDROOM, SUGGESTED SHANE WARNE 

Indecent proposal: Warne was 'too wild' for Michelle
Indecent proposal: Warne was 'too wild' for Michelle
Newly single after 22 years of marriage, I got a rude introduction to the modern dating scene from the Australian cricketer Shane Warne, Liz Hurley’s ex.
We were fixed up by our mutual friend, the former England cricket captain Michael Vaughan.
Since Shane was in Australia and I was in the UK, we couldn’t meet straight away and spent two months constantly texting and chatting over the phone.
He was good fun, and although I felt the odd text message from him was a bit too explicit, I was excited about seeing him when he flew to London in February 2014.
He was supposed to land on a Saturday, and we planned to meet that evening, but I received a text on the Friday saying he had arrived a day early because he had to ‘sort some things out’ with Liz.
That happened to be Valentine’s Day, so my mind raced as I wondered whether he was two-timing me.
The following evening, I got all dressed up in my suite at the Dorchester hotel, before receiving a text at 7.45pm, 15 minutes after he was supposed to meet me, saying he couldn’t make it.
I was furious, and even more so the next morning when I saw newspaper photographs of him getting out of a car with Liz.
Later that day, when he asked if he could come and see me, I almost said no, but he insisted so vehemently that nothing was going on between them that I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
Since paparazzi were hanging around the hotel for the BAFTA Awards, we agreed that he should come to my suite which had a lounge where we could sit and chat.
Finally, after all that build-up, he walked in. We opened a bottle of champagne and talked, but it wasn’t the sort of conversation I’d expected. He chain-smoked about 35 cigarettes — and I hate smoking — and after about an hour he got restless.
‘Can we go next door to the bedroom?’ he asked suggestively.
I made it clear that I was not that kind of girl and, besides, though he’s a nice, fun guy, he wasn’t my type in the end. He was a bit too wild for me.
All in all, it was really disappointing but at least I learned something from the experience.
Never again will I start texting a guy without meeting him first because, quite frankly, Shane wasted two months of my life.

Ambitious: Michelle says she's still working out what she wants to do with the next chapter of her life
Ambitious: Michelle says she's still working out what she wants to do with the next chapter of her life
She’s one of Britain’s most flamboyant businesswomen. Now Ultimo bra tycoon Michelle Mone is laying bare how her marriage became a battle more bitter than any she’d faced in the boardroom. Today, in our concluding extract, she reveals how she finally exposed her husband’s affair — and plotted her revenge . . .
As a kid growing up in one of the most working class parts of Glasgow, I vowed that one day I’d have a house like the ones I saw on my favourite TV programme, Dynasty.
Sure enough, the six-bedroom mansion which my husband Michael and I bought in 2008 had a sweeping staircase, just like the one featured in the home of the fabulously wealthy Carrington family.
There was also a huge walk-in wardrobe containing 100 pairs of Louboutin shoes and racks of dresses costing £4,000 a pop.
Downstairs we had a bar, a cinema with reclining leather chairs and even a nightclub out the back, not to mention five flashy cars on the driveway including Michael’s £100,000 Porsche.
To top it all, the house was in an affluent village ten miles from Glasgow which is known as Millionaires’ Row. For me, it couldn’t have been more perfect — but my parents hated visiting me there.
‘It’s like a show-home,’ Mum shuddered, and she was right. I had installed four dishwashers because I couldn’t bear the sight of dirty plates, and our three kids were forbidden ever to put a pine coat-hanger into a walnut wardrobe, knowing that it would freak me out.
Once I returned from a business trip and found that the salt grinder had been left out in the kitchen. Panic. I needed to check nothing else was out of place.
Only after I’d opened the cupboards one by one and ensured that the food labels were all facing the same way did I feel in control again.
This obsessive compulsive behaviour was a manifestation of my deep-seated unhappiness. I found comfort in regimenting the small things around me because I felt out of control in a much bigger part of my life — my marriage.
As I’ve explained in this series, my marital problems began soon after the launch of our Ultimo lingerie brand in 1999. Going to work became like walking through a minefield, our boardroom meetings constantly interrupted by one or other of us storming out, and the arguments continued at home where our sex life was virtually non-existent.
Incredibly, I never considered divorce. I came from a background where you got on with it, no matter what. But the beginning of the very dramatic end came in the summer of 2011 when I appointed 31-year-old Samantha Bunn as our new head of design.
Break-up: Michelle split with husband Michael after he became close to her new head of design Samantha Bunn
Break-up: Michelle split with husband Michael after he became close to her new head of design Samantha Bunn
She was nine years younger than me and I took her under my wing. She was having big problems with her boyfriend so I felt sorry for her and said she could live in our guest annexe, right next door to the main house.
I treated her like a family friend. Some nights I invited her over for dinner and we’d all sit around the kitchen table, chatting and laughing. But soon she started pushing the boundaries.
At work, she was always in Michael’s office, flirting and flicking her long dark hair. Michael shut the door, something he never usually did, but I could see what was going on because of the design of our headquarters. Built in the shape of a breast — well, we had made our fortune selling bras — they had glass walls everywhere.
While I was away on business, Sam started popping around for dinner with Michael and the kids. One night I saw him lifting a bottle of red out of the wine rack and he told me he was taking it next door because Sam had texted to say she’d run out. An hour later he returned, claiming they had been just ‘talking’.
After that, I was constantly asking Michael if he was having an affair and his answer was always the same — ‘You’re mad, you need to be sectioned’.
He told everyone, even my parents, that I needed psychiatric help, but my suspicions continued to grow at our office Christmas party where Sam giggled into his ear and he ignored virtually everyone else.
Michelle Mone fired Samantha Bunn (left) after discovering she had struck up a romance with her estranged husband Michael
Samantha Bunn is nine years Michelle's junior
Michelle Mone fired Samantha Bunn (top) after discovering she had struck up a romance with her estranged husband Michael
Michelle hired a private detective to prove that her ex-husband was having an affair her head of design Samantha Bunn
Michelle hired a private detective to prove that her ex-husband was having an affair her head of design Samantha Bunn
I wanted to go home at 7pm so the staff could let their hair down without us around, but Michael refused to leave. That night, I paced our bedroom waiting for him to return. Finally, at 3.30am, I heard a taxi pull into the drive and the two of them giggling.
That was it. I’d had enough of this heartache and nobody made a fool out of me. I confronted him and we had yet another explosive argument and barely spoke for the next week.
When it got to Christmas Day we agreed that we’d put on a happy front for the sake of the children, who were then 12, 15 and 19, but after taking the turkey out of the oven Michael suddenly walked out.
It was awful. I was crying and so were the kids. He didn’t come back until Boxing Day morning, and we agreed then that our marriage was over. I put out a Press statement to that effect because that way I knew there could be no going back, and I could draw a line under it and finally move on.
The release made no mention of Sam. I was doing this for closure, not out of spite, but Michael remained adamant that there was nothing happening between them, and I wanted proof that there was to reassure both myself and my family that I wasn’t going mad, as he had kept insisting I was.
So I decided to flush them out like rats. That January, the two of them were due to visit our factories in Hong Kong with some of our technical staff and I gave details of their itinerary to a private detective recommended via contacts of my friend, Carol Vorderman.
I’d got to know Carol well after we starred together on Celebrity Apprentice, and while Michael and Sam were away in Hong Kong she took me out to lunch in London to cheer me up.
Halfway through our meal I got a call from the private detective, suggesting we meet urgently. He came to the restaurant, took me aside, and handed me a big brown envelope.
Inside I found pictures of Michael snogging Sam at the airport and of her going back to his hotel room. Deep down I knew my marriage had been over for years, but I still felt indescribable pain. My knees buckled and I fell to the ground crying, comforted by Carol who ran over and wrapped her arms around me.
Back in Scotland my grief turned to anger. After texting Michael to tell him that he had been caught red-handed, I grabbed a knife and went to town on his beloved Porsche, scratching it to shreds.
Then I charged round to the guesthouse where Sam was living — thanks to the kindness which she had betrayed — and threw all of her possessions into the garden, the dressing table along with them. I was like a banshee.
I then kept calling Sam’s phone until she picked up.
After defacing her husband's Porsche, Michelle had to give Michael £8,000 for the damage to the car
‘You b****, you lied to me,’ I screamed.
‘It’s not like that,’ she stuttered. ‘It only started a few days ago.’
‘You’re a liar and you’re fired,’ I blasted.
When Michael got back from Hong Kong, the first thing he raged about was his Porsche.
‘My f***ing car,’ he yelled. ‘You’ll pay for that.’
‘You’re lucky I didn’t set fire to it,’ I replied.
In the coming weeks, he told the press that there had been no relationship with Sam prior to our split at Christmas — and I even got a letter from her lawyers saying that she was suing me for unfair dismissal.
What was I supposed to do? Sit down and design bras with her? I would probably have stuck the needles and scissors up her backside, but my lawyer advised me to pay her off and she wasn’t the only cost. I also had to give Michael £8,000 for the damage to his car. But the fighting between us was not over even then. 
Any reasonable person who’d had an affair would have moved out of the family home, but Michael tried to insist that it was I who should go. There was no way I would leave my house and my kids, and what followed was like that film The War Of The Roses in which divorcing husband and wife Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner try everything to get each other to leave the house and end up in a fight to the death.
Weight battle: Entrepeneur Michelle Mone went from a binge-eater, left, in 2003, to svelte pin-up, above
Every night there was a race to the master bedroom. Whoever was there first got the bed. I put his favourite shirts and cufflinks in the bin. I let down his car tyres. I cut holes in all his boxer shorts. I put laxatives in his coffee on the day that he and Sam were going to a wedding — God only knows if that worked. Michael probably did things to me too because quite a lot of my stuff went missing, but somehow we remained under the same roof for eight months before agreeing to alternate weeks at the house.
On the day I moved out to a hotel for his first week I crept up to the master bedroom, pulled back the luxurious throw and threw a bucket of cold water over his side of the bed before replacing the covers.
Later the kids phoned to ask why I had done this and, looking back, I can see I was selfish. I should have thought about the effect all this would have on them, but it was my way of getting my hurt out.
At the same time, I was also fighting Michael for control of the company. Who would buy out who? It started with a low blow from him. ‘You’re fired,’ he said one day, pointing at me as if he was Lord Alan Sugar.
I’d always left the legal side of things to him and now learned that he had somehow ended up with 48 per cent of our shares, compared with my 47 per cent. But still he needed 50 per cent to control the business and I managed to persuade Tom Walker, a silent shareholder who owned 5 per cent, to back me, and together we had more power than Michael.
Hidden troubles: Michelle and Michael, above in 2010, maintained the image of the perfect couple
Hidden troubles: Michelle and Michael, above in 2010, maintained the image of the perfect couple
That was round one of what felt like the longest boxing match in history. Whatever punches Michael threw I got up the next day ready for battle.
He might have been more intelligent than me — he was a university graduate whereas I had left school at 15 with no qualifications — but I had more fight and stamina, although I was crying myself to sleep and downing a bottle of wine a night to numb the pain of it all.
With news of our problems now public, the company value crashed as customers wondered what was going on. Eventually I managed to find new backers, but they would only invest if Michael left — and he refused to accept what was being offered for his shares.
Finally, in February 2013, with only weeks to go before we went under, our bank told Michael that he had to accept the deal. That same day I agreed with him the paperwork for our divorce, and soon afterwards we sold the house.
The biggest battle of my life was finally over, and in August 2013 the kids and I moved into a once derelict Victorian building in Glasgow which I had spent months transforming into our new dream home. Living there was a new beginning for us, and the feelings of bitterness which used to eat me up at night slowly vanished.
Not even the news that Michael had launched a rival lingerie company with Sam bothered me, and I wished them all the best on their recent engagement.
As for me, I hope that one day I’ll meet the perfect guy, but I’m not sitting around waiting for it to happen because there’s so much I still want to achieve.
These days I want to spend more time with my kids, and more time working on ‘me’, and so I have sold 80 per cent of Ultimo, hanging up my bra as Chief Executive.
I’m still working out what I want to do with the next chapter of my life. It will definitely involve lots of motivational speaking, inspiring other people to make the most out of their lives, and if there’s one lesson I’ve learned above all, it is that material things do not bring you happiness.
If only I could go back in time and tell that to the little girl who sat at home in the East End of Glasgow, watching TV with her sausage-and-chips supper on her knees and dreaming of the riches she saw on Dynasty.